The statistics are shocking – more than 60% of children in South Africa grow up without a father, and often lack a sense of belonging. Julian Jansen explores the harsh realities behind the statistics to find solutions. Looking at it from both a practical and spiritual perspective he draws on the latest research and insights gleaned from spiritual leaders and members of the community. Interweaving his own story, he can’t help but ask: Why did my brothers and I not become gang members?